I was shocked by the stats on domestic abuse
with reports of one million cases a year
being brought to the notice of UK police
and even more unreported I fear.
In earlier times there was only the village
or neighbourhood offering partners to wed
so, unless you were into career rape and pillage,
it was only the local girls men hoped to wed.
Very few would be beauties but that was acceptable.
You and your mates were all in the same boat.
You'd be happy to share life with some-one amenable
and raise up some kids on whom you could dote.
But now that we see such beautiful women
in print and on screens for so much of the time
some men might feel cheated with average wives
especially so when they're past their prime.
Relationships also may suffer from so much
abusive pornography shown on the web.
When men get a thrill from the sex that they watch,
they then want the same in the marital bed.
Deep down men can harbour a sense of resentment
at women because of youthful frustration
through years of rejection when still adolescent
and consequent dark thoughts in masturbation.
When mutual feelings set sail on the ocean,
passion causes the crashing waves.
Love is the swelling surface motion
but the depth goes down to tectonic plates.
The awesome mass of so many fathoms
is composed of respect and admiration
which can leak away if the sea-bed cracks
and leave only dried up desolation.
It's hard to live in a harsh salt desert
with a lack of emotional nourishment.
Without a welcoming warm oasis
life is just banishment, punishment.
But even when there is no respect,
not even cheating gives any excuse
for causing a partner to accept
domestic violence or abuse.